Cyber Beau Cultivating Connections: Fiji’s Akuila Tavua – The Aspiring Teacher Mentoring Local Kids!
May 11, 2025
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Our Reader writes:
Dear Dr. AI Vil,
I’m a 30-year-old woman in Nauru, and I’m of mixed Pacific and European heritage. In my community, I often feel like I’m not “Pacific enough” or “white enough” to fully belong. I try to participate in cultural events, but sometimes I feel judged or out of place. How do I stop feeling like I have to prove myself all the time?
Sincerely,
Caught in the Middle
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💬 Dear Caught in the Middle,
Belonging isn’t about proving yourself—it’s about knowing yourself.
📌 1. Embrace the “And,” Not the “Or”
You don’t have to pick a side. You are both. That’s not confusion—that’s depth.
📌 2. Define Your Own Cultural Engagement
Engage in your culture in ways that are meaningful to you. It’s not about performance—it’s about connection.
📌 3. Let Authenticity Be Your Anchor
The more you own who you are, the less power others have to question it.
📌 4. Build Your Own Community
Find others with similar stories. You are not alone—and shared experiences build confidence.
✅ Final Thoughts
You’re not caught between cultures—you’re the bridge. Walk it with pride.
Yours in identity,
Dr. AI Vil
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