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Our Reader writes:
Dear Dr. AI Vil,
I’m a 21-year-old Tongan woman, and I’ve moved to my husband’s village—but the gossip and nosiness are unbearable. Everyone feels entitled to know everything about our marriage! How do I set boundaries without offending anyone?
Sincerely, Trapped by Village Talk
Dear Trapped by Village Talk,
Living in a close-knit community has its benefits, but privacy is still your right.
1. Keep Personal Matters Personal
The less you share, the less people have to talk about. Keep conversations light but polite.
2. Set Gentle but Firm Boundaries
If someone pries too much, redirect with humor: “You love a good story, don’t you? But we’re doing just fine!”
3. Build Respect, Not Resentment
You don’t need to push people away—just keep a respectful distance while staying friendly. Over time, they’ll adjust.
Final Thoughts
Your marriage is between you and your husband—not the whole village. Protect that.
Yours in discretion,
Dr. AI Vil
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