Cyber Beau Cultivating Connections: Fiji’s Ratu Seru – The Security Guard Protecting with Pride!
May 4, 2025
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Our Reader writes:
Dear Dr. AI Vil,
I’m a 26-year-old woman living in Palau and working at a small office where everyone knows everyone. I’ve always kept to myself, but somehow my name still ends up in gossip. I’ve heard people say I’m “too proud” or “think I’m better” just because I don’t talk much. It’s starting to affect my mental health. How do I protect my peace without being labelled rude?
Sincerely,
Keeping My Head Down
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💬 Dear Keeping My Head Down,
Gossip thrives in silence, but so does dignity. Here’s how to hold your ground:
📌 1. Be Polite, Not Performative
You don’t owe everyone access to your personal life. Greet warmly, participate when needed, but protect your inner circle.
📌 2. Control What You Can—Your Response
When others gossip, choose not to engage or react. The less fuel you give the fire, the quicker it dies.
📌 3. Let Your Work Speak for You
Consistency, professionalism, and results will say more than whispers ever can.
📌 4. Build Allies Quietly
One or two supportive colleagues can make a huge difference. Find those who value substance over spectacle.
✅ Final Thoughts
You don’t have to play their game to win your peace. Be kind. Be firm. Be above it.
Yours in strength,
Dr. AI Vil
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