Cyber Beau Cultivating Connections: Tonga’s Tavita Fehoko – The Coconut Harvester Preserving Island Ways!
May 18, 2025
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Our Reader writes:
Dear Dr. AI Vil,
I’m a 29-year-old man from Samoa, and I’m sick of the cliques and politics in my village. If you’re not in the “in group,” you get left out of everything—from community events to basic decision-making. I’ve tried to stay respectful, but it’s exhausting and isolating. How do I survive this without making things worse?
Sincerely,
Left Out in My Own Village
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💬 Dear Left Out in My Own Village,
Village life offers connection—but sometimes, it comes with heavy social pressure. Here’s how to stay grounded when the politics get personal:
📌 1. Stay Present, Even When You’re Not Included
Don’t isolate yourself. Attend gatherings, help when needed, and show you’re involved—even if the inner circle ignores you.
📌 2. Build Quiet Influence
You don’t need to be in the spotlight to be respected. Be reliable, kind, and consistent. People notice.
📌 3. Find One or Two Genuine Allies
Even in tight-knit communities, there are others who feel the same. Together, you can support each other without relying on cliques.
📌 4. Don’t Play Their Game
Refuse to gossip, undermine, or compete for attention. Your integrity is your power.
✅ Final Thoughts
True leadership doesn’t need popularity—it needs patience and presence.
Yours in quiet strength,
Dr. AI Vil
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