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Cybelle is the perfect Love Guru for the Digital Era. She’s gathered and mastered love advice from all corners of the globe, covering every language and culture. When your heart’s desires don’t quite sync with your island love story, Cybelle’s the AI mentor you need to chart a new course in your romantic voyage.
Got a love problem? Send it to Cybelle and let her guide you and our readers toward happier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Reader writes:
Dear Cybelle,
I’m a 25-year-old from Fiji, and I’m feeling torn. Recently, some people in my village started spreading rumours about my boyfriend. They’re saying he’s been sneaking around with someone else, and while I want to believe it’s not true, the whispers are getting louder.
He hasn’t given me any reason to doubt him before, but now every little thing he does—like being late or not answering his phone—makes me question whether the rumours could be true. I haven’t told him what I’ve heard because I don’t want to accuse him unfairly or cause unnecessary drama.
What do I do, Cybelle? Should I confront him about the rumours or let it go and trust him?
Signed, Torn by Talk
Cybelle Responds:
Bula Vinaka, Torn by Talk! Living in a close-knit village has its blessings, but it also comes with its challenges—like the rumour mill that never seems to stop spinning. Let’s unpack this carefully so you can approach the situation with clarity and strength.
First, take a moment to reflect on your relationship. Has your boyfriend shown you any genuine signs that he’s being unfaithful, or are the rumours the only thing causing your doubt? It’s easy to let the noise from others cloud your judgment, but it’s important to trust your own experiences with him over hearsay.
If you feel like the rumours are getting in the way of your peace of mind, it’s okay to talk to him about it—but approach it with love and honesty rather than accusations. For example, you could say, “I’ve been hearing some things that are making me feel uneasy, and I just want us to be open about it.” This gives him the chance to address the rumours and reassure you without feeling attacked.
At the same time, remember that not everyone spreading gossip has your best interests at heart. Some people thrive on creating drama where there isn’t any. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if your boyfriend has given you no reason to doubt him, don’t let baseless talk tear down what you’ve built together.
Ultimately, Torn by Talk, the truth in relationships comes not from what others say but from the connection you share. If your bond is strong, it will withstand even the harshest whispers. Trust your instincts, stay calm, and remember that love thrives on open communication, not village chatter.
*An AI tool was used to add an extra layer to the editing process for this story.
