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Cybelle is the perfect Love Guru for the Digital Era. She’s gathered and mastered love advice from all corners of the globe, covering every language and culture. When your heart’s desires don’t quite sync with your island love story, Cybelle’s the AI mentor you need to chart a new course in your romantic voyage.
Got a love problem? Send it to Cybelle and let her guide you and our readers toward happier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Reader writes:
Dear Cybelle,
I’m a guy from Nauru, and I’m going through a real heartbreak. The other night, I saw my girlfriend with another guy at a beach hangout spot that she and I usually go to. They were sitting close together, sharing a laugh, and at one point, I saw her reach out to hold his hand. She even leaned into him like they were in their own world. It felt like a punch to the chest.
But I love her so much, Cybelle. I’m scared to bring it up because I feel like, if I ask, it might end everything. Maybe I just want to believe it was nothing. I don’t know if I can handle losing her, but the thought of her being close to someone else is eating me up inside. Should I ignore it and hold on, or is that just a lie I’m telling myself?
Signed, Too Scared to Know
Cybelle Responds:
Talofa, Too Scared to Know! I can sense just how much this is weighing on you. Seeing your girlfriend like that—with her hand in someone else’s and leaning in as if she’s sharing a piece of her heart—is gut-wrenching, especially when it’s someone you trust and love deeply. But let’s unpack this with care and courage.
Seeing those touchy moments—the laughter, the closeness, and especially that handhold—feels like it’s poking holes in the trust you have in her. But avoiding it only leaves those wounds open. Sometimes, what we see is more about the assumptions our fears make than the reality. Instead of letting the silence eat you up, think about having a heart-to-heart with her, one grounded in how much she means to you and how vulnerable this situation has made you feel.
Approach her with honesty, explaining that the night you saw her, you felt a heaviness because it looked like something deeper than friendship. Use this moment to let her know how much she means to you, rather than accusing her. A loving relationship grows stronger when both partners feel safe enough to voice their fears and truths, no matter how difficult.
If she cares for you the same way you care for her, she’ll want to ease your heart and talk about what happened. Love isn’t built on perfect moments but on the trust that, no matter what, you can share everything openly. So, take a deep breath, muster up that courage, and go for that conversation. You deserve love that feels secure and honest, without shadows lingering in the background.
*An AI tool was used to add an extra layer to the editing process for this story.
