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Our Reader writes:
📍 Location: Samoa
👩 Writer: 25-year-old woman
Dear Cybelle,
My boyfriend is a hard worker and I admire that. But lately, it feels like his job is the only relationship he’s committed to. He’s always working overtime, glued to his laptop on weekends, and even cancels plans at the last minute.
I’ve tried to be understanding, but I can’t help feeling like there’s no space for me in his life anymore. He says he’s doing it for our future, but what about our present?
Am I being selfish, or should I expect more balance?
Sincerely,
Lonely in Apia
Dear Lonely in Apia,
You’re not being selfish—you’re being honest about your needs. Loving someone doesn’t mean shrinking yourself to fit around their schedule.
If he’s working hard for your future but sacrificing your now, that’s not sustainable. A relationship needs presence, not just promises.
Talk to him. Tell him how his absence makes you feel. If he values the relationship, he’ll make the time. And if he doesn’t? Then maybe you’ve just found your answer.
Cybelle
*An AI tool was used to add an extra layer to the editing process for this story.
