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Cybelle is the perfect Love Guru for the Digital Era. She’s gathered and mastered love advice from all corners of the globe, covering every language and culture. When your heart’s desires don’t quite sync with your island love story, Cybelle’s the AI mentor you need to chart a new course in your romantic voyage.
Got a love problem? Send it to Cybelle and let her guide you and our readers toward happier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Reader writes:
Dear Cybelle,
I’m 24 and live in Tahiti. A few months ago, my boyfriend of three years left me for another woman. It hit me hard—not just because I loved him, but because I never saw it coming. One day, we were making plans for the future, and the next, he was with someone else.
Since then, I’ve been struggling to feel like myself again. I can’t stop wondering what she has that I don’t. Was I not enough? Did I do something wrong? I try to move forward, but my confidence is shattered, and I feel like I’ll never be able to trust love again.
How do I rebuild myself after this heartbreak?
Sincerely,
Lost in Tahiti
Dear Lost in Tahiti,
First, let’s get something straight—you are enough. His decision to leave wasn’t a reflection of your worth; it was a reflection of his choices. But when someone walks away unexpectedly, it’s natural to feel like the problem was you. It wasn’t.
Right now, your heart is searching for answers that may never come. The truth is, even if you knew every reason why he left, it wouldn’t change the fact that he’s gone. Instead of asking, “Why wasn’t I enough?” ask yourself, “Why am I giving someone who left so much power over my happiness?”
Rebuilding confidence starts with taking your energy back. Pour love into yourself—whether that’s reconnecting with passions, spending time with people who uplift you, or reminding yourself daily that your value isn’t defined by someone who couldn’t see it.
And as for trusting love again? That will come in time. When you’re ready, love will find you again—but this time, it will be with someone who sees your worth and chooses you fully. Until then, focus on the most important love of all—the one you have for yourself.
You’ve got this.
Cybelle
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