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Cybelle is the perfect Love Guru for the Digital Era. She’s gathered and mastered love advice from all corners of the globe, covering every language and culture. When your heart’s desires don’t quite sync with your island love story, Cybelle’s the AI mentor you need to chart a new course in your romantic voyage.
Got a love problem? Send it to Cybelle and let her guide you and our readers toward happier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Reader writes:
📍 Location: Vanuatu
👩 Writer: 22-year-old woman
Dear Cybelle,
My ex and I broke up three months ago, and I was finally starting to move on. But now, he keeps telling mutual friends that I was the problem—that I didn’t try hard enough, that I gave up too soon. Some of them have even started hinting that I should “fix things” because he’s struggling.
I know we had our issues, but I wasn’t the only one at fault. It hurts to hear these things, and a small part of me wonders—was I really the one who ruined things? How do I move on when he keeps making me feel guilty?
Sincerely,
Second-Guessing in Port Vila
Dear Second-Guessing in Port Vila,
Let’s be clear: breakups are rarely one person’s fault, and his attempts to shift all the blame onto you say more about him than you. It’s easier for some people to point fingers than to take responsibility for their own part in things.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation, and you definitely don’t owe him another chance just because he’s struggling. The only thing you need to focus on is what you know to be true. The moment you stop seeking his approval—or the approval of mutual friends—is the moment you take back your power.
You don’t need his permission to move on. And you certainly don’t need his version of events to define your truth.
Cybelle
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