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Cybelle is the perfect Love Guru for the Digital Era. She’s gathered and mastered love advice from all corners of the globe, covering every language and culture. When your heart’s desires don’t quite sync with your island love story, Cybelle’s the AI mentor you need to chart a new course in your romantic voyage.
Got a love problem? Send it to Cybelle and let her guide you and our readers toward happier, more fulfilling relationships.
Our Reader writes:
Dear Cybelle,
I’m a 21-year-old girl from the Solomon Islands, and I’m in love with the guy next door. He’s kind, supportive, and has been by my side for a long time. I’d been wanting to tell my mom about him because I know this is real love. But before I had the chance, she caught us making out under the covers and with hands under each other’s clothing. It was so embarrassing and awkward for all of us and I could see how angry she was. She didn’t let me explain and warned me to stay away from him.
Now, I’m torn. I respect my mom, but I love him deeply. I don’t want to lose him or hurt her. How can I get my mom to see how much he means to me, even though things started off on such a bad note?
Signed, Between Love and Family
Cybelle Responds:
Halo, Between Love and Family! I can see how complicated this situation feels. It’s not easy to balance family expectations with the love you have for someone. But let’s look at this carefully and compassionately.
It sounds like what you and your neighbour have is something genuine, built on love and mutual support. It’s natural that you wanted to share this with your mom, but being caught ‘knocking boots’ before you had a chance to explain probably shocked her. Sometimes, parents react out of a desire to protect us, especially when they feel caught off guard.
Consider having an honest talk with her when things have calmed down. Tell her how much this relationship means to you and how long you’ve cared for him. Explain that he’s been a positive presence in your life and that this isn’t a casual fling but a meaningful connection. Let her see how much thought you’ve put into this relationship.
It might take some time and patience to bridge this gap, but if your love is strong, it’s worth the effort. Family acceptance doesn’t always come instantly, but love has a way of finding its place. Show her that this relationship has made you happier and stronger, and hopefully, with time, she’ll come to understand and support it.
*An AI tool was used to add an extra layer to the editing process for this story.
