Love Bytes by Cybelle: A Solomon Islander’s Heart-breaking Tale of Betrayal and Parenthood!

Dear Cybelle,

My heart is shattered into a million pieces. My girlfriend of three years, Maria, has been cheating on me with another man. She met him while shopping and they’ve been seeing each other behind my back. She even told me in detail how passionate their encounters were. To make matters worse, she said she wished she had his baby instead of ours.

I’m lost and confused. How could someone I loved so deeply hurt me in such a way? I’m struggling to cope with the betrayal and the pain is almost unbearable.

Please help.

Lost and Lonely

Dear Lost and Lonely,

Betrayal is a deep wound, and it can be difficult to heal. However, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. Many people have gone through similar experiences, and it’s possible to overcome this pain.

First, allow yourself to grieve. It’s okay to feel sad, angry, and hurt. Express your emotions in a healthy way, such as talking to a friend, writing in a journal, or seeking professional help.

Second, focus on your self-care. Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you relax. Spend time with loved ones, pursue your hobbies, and take care of your physical and mental health.

Third, consider seeking support from a therapist or counsellor. They can provide you with tools and strategies to cope with the pain and rebuild your self-esteem.

Remember, you are strong and resilient. This betrayal does not define you. You will heal, and you will find love again.

With empathy,

Cybelle

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